Meeting The Onewill feel like nothing youve ever felt before.
Itll feel like youre in the right place at the right time. Youll be overwhelmed by happiness and this calming sense of reassurance that everything is alright.Youll just know you dont have to search for your soulmate anymore.
All of a sudden, it just clicks.
My husband and I decided to get married after less than five weeks of dating. Both of us had been pretty commitment-phobic before, but when we finally connected, we knew it was meant to be.
But what if you want some concrete proof? What are the telltale signs that this person is truly the one for you? Although theres no scientific way to assess this,there are some common signsthat point to the beginning of an everlastingromance.
If your partner does the things on this list, you may have just found the relationship of a lifetime.
1. Theyll accept how strange you are (and join in, too).
The perfect guy will only add to all the strange things you do while continuing to make you feel accepted.
I neverfeel like Im a weirdo around my husband. In fact, I feel like I finally met someone who will join in on the fun.
If Ive just landed an unsuspecting wet willy on my husband, Ican usually expect one right backin the next half day or so as payback. Hes comfortable doing weird stuff like that around me, as I am around him.
The One will be open to all the comically wackyof your personality,all while showing off their wacky side too.
2. Theyll always be there to cheer you on.
Whether its your next 5K or a nerve-wracking speaking engagement, The One will be there as your biggest support system.
In fact, theyll probably be sitting front row.
My husband isnt exactly a hugefan ofCrossFit, but he happily joined me at apartners beach Workout Of The Dayas soon as I asked.
Hes my biggest fan and a reliablepartner.
3. Theyllwant to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
In prior relationships, I always felt like the balance of how much time we wanted to spend together was just off. Now that Im married, I realize that in the relationship, that equal balance is easy to find.
The One wont make you chase them for their time or attention.
Instead, theyll want to be with you as much as you want to be with them. And theyll make that clear with their actions.
4. Theyll never try to keep secrets.
The One will want to share everything with you andavoid keeping you in the dark when it comes to their life.
Within our first week of dating, my husband and I had laid everything out on the table. I knew about all of his prior relationships, prior accomplishments, prior missteps, and even prior rugby injuries.
He didnt need to keep anything from me.
Although not everything is strictly need-to-know, in a relationship with The One, youll end up knowing it all: the good, the bad, and even the unnecessary.
5. Theyll never fail to blow your mind in bed.
Every. Goddamn. Time.
6. Theyll understand your wants and needs, even if you dont always understand them yourself.
The One will understand that sometimes, you wont exactly know what youre feeling.
Lucky for you, theyre around even with things can get confusing. My husband implicitly understands when I need my space, and on the other hand, is there for me when I need comfort.
Your partner will understand exactly whats right for you, even if you dont.
7. They wont be able to get enough of you, no matter what you look like.
Sometimes, I catch my husband dopily staring at me when Im doing the lamest thing, like cleaning out the French press. He says he cant help it because he finds me beautiful all the time.
Normally, I tell him to get his glasses checked, but I still cant help but smile.
The One will be hooked on you, all the time, and not just when youre at your best.
It doesnt matter if youre dressed to the nines for a dinner party or groggily rolling out of bed at noon on a Sunday.The One will want you no matter what.
8. Theyll always turn to you for advice.
If your partner is asking you for help on a big decision or important call in their life,thats a good sign.
Asking foryour advice shows that they trust you more than anyone else. More importantly, it shows that they think you have something special to offer them thatyoull have their best interests at heart.
They could run to else, but chose to turn to you.
The One will value your thoughts and opinions in this fashion.
9. Theyll makelittle trips seem like big adventures.
The One will make every mundane, adult task seem like a day at a theme park.
I used to be irritated by the mere thought of a grocery store trip, wanting itto be over as fast as possible. Now, I ride on the cart while my husband pushes around, stopping at the toy aisle to play with light sabers.
That perfect partner of yours will want to continue making every day a crazy, rollercoaster adventure with you.
10. Theyll know youre The One, too.
When things just feel right, youll know it. In fact, The One will tell you that they see you in the exact same light as you see them.
Through any ups and downs, your partner will be sure to remind you that theyre not going anywhere. The One will understand your prior issues and make sure you know, again and again, how much they love you. Their unyielding desire to be by your side will be clear evidence of that.
If you think youve found The One, appreciate em. Embrace it.And if youre still feeling skeptical, a little reassurance from these points never hurt.
I can bet that chances are youve found your forever love.
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