First dates can be a lot of things. Some of those things are positive. They can be refreshing, exciting and even a fun adventure. When they are good, you’ll wish that date would never end. You’ll find yourself lost in deep conversation, and you won’t even feel the urge to check your watch or your…
Imin a relationship currently, but before that, I had been single my whole life (minus a brief stint with a passionate love affair in the sixth grade). Simply put, I was used to being single, and I was good at it. is one good at being single, you ask? Well, its quite simple: You refuse…
I don’t have the greatest taste in partners. In fact, my preference is mostly commitment-phobes, cheaters, and people who don’t like me back. Every time I have a new crush, there are always signs he’s not boyfriend material, but I pretty much like to overlook them. Red flags? I love flags! They’re so fun to look at.…
Let’s go back in time, sweet kittens, to when 28-year-old Zara had just moved back to the big, bad island of Manhattan and was super single and ready to mingle. And to when she learned about the epic third date shift. Ihad recently moved back to glittering New York from humid, flat AF Florida, where…
For the longest time, I didnt want to get into a relationship because I didnt want to LOSE MY IDENTITY. I hadalways feared losing myself in a relationship. I just wantedto run free around New York City with my best friend, Owen, hopping from gay bar to gay bar to gay bar to gay bar,…
I was 23, newly living in San Francisco. I felt energized, free, eager and calm.I was ready to take on the world. I was busy taking part ina graduate program full-time and working 40 plus hours per week in retail management. Because of my hectic schedule with the most random “off” days (if I had…